I married my Love making client

“What was your motivation to get into this kind of business?” my client asked me as I told him my charges for the night once we got in the room.

I hadn’t seen the question coming because most worker’s clients have no time for preambles. Theirs is pay, get it and leave. My client tonight was a young handsome man in his late 20s. The gold ring on his finger was the only reason I suspected he was a married man. ?
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I did not have an immediate answer so I retorted: “…and why have you left your wife for prostitutes… I am in business!”

Deep inside me I knew I would give anything to live a more decent life, but prostitution had gotten into me and now I could not free myself! His smile was the kindest I have ever seen in my entire life as a worker. “Would you really be interested in knowing why I am here?” He gently responded sending frightening memories of the warning my “mentors” in  work had issued.

The intimacy was sweet Erick: Lovers open up to their ex-partners

Do you miss me?

• The thing about ex-partners is that they could influence how you treat your partner in future relationships.
• From the messages , some clearly still love and miss the company they had but are sad that life happened.  

We recently asked our readers to anonymously send a message to their ex partners in poll. There is fun in anonymity and these ex-partners will confess that.

In an interesting twist, it emerges that although some have long forgotten their relationships, a huge number of us have not moved on from previous relationships.  We still are nursing old wounds and carry bitterness over sour relationships we had.

Could this be the reason why we do not give it all in our current relationships?

The real reason women stay with men who cheat

I remember being a young girl when the Monica Lewinsky sex scandal broke. Being young and naïve and probably unable to understand the dynamics of married life, I was so sure that it would not be long before Hillary Clinton gave her husband the boot, a public and humiliating one at that. I was surprised when she decided to stand by her husband throughout the scandal and is even still married to him.

I was a disappointed young girl as I could not understand why the First Lady, an educated and exposed woman, would choose to stand by her lying, cheating scoundrel of a husband. My mother tried to comfort me by explaining that Hillary had simply done what most women do: make a selfless sacrifice for her marriage and family.

How to be second wife: Proud second wives speak out, and give tips

There is literally no man out there who is available who is really worth being in relationship with?

• How does it feel to be married to a man who already has another wife? The nightmare of dealing with a hostile co-wife, grown step children or generally being trapped in constant competition with a co-wife?

Polygamy is a concept that has been with us for a while now. For far too long, “second wife” label had some negative connotations. The title came with a lot of baggage and in some cases stigma.

To some people, it looked like it was a backward living arrangement that only ‘desperate’, lowly and village-bred women embraced.

Things women look for in men

Should this trend continue just because, as it is often said, it is a man’s world? I say, hell no! You should hear how men freely express their views in regard to what they want, and who is an ideal woman for this or that purpose. Some even get graphic in their explanations.

I know men like to say that they cannot understand women because we are complicated. That we say one thing and mean another.
So, we are different. But, gentlemen, woman aren’t exactly the great mystery that you often make the world believe. Women are very simple. Their needs are very basic. Well, today I have decided to extend an olive branch to the male species, and help them navigate the dating minefield. I will try to explain what women look for in men.
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